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Hi, I'm Katarina

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I'm an Executive Relationship Strategist who's spent the last two decades studying relationships.

Professionally, I am the founder of Successfully in Love® - an action-orientated, proven methodology specialising in executive relationship strategy for high performers navigating their most critical relational decisions.

Personally, this work found me.

For most of my career, I relentlessly pursued success. Double First Class degree, scholarship to Oxford for my Masters. Founded my first company at 17, second at 23. In my 30s, I became a Regional Vice President at a global behavioural science consultancy, working with Fortune 500 companies across the world.

What no one could see was that I was grappling with the same relational questions my clients bring to me now. Should I stay or go? Am I too much? Is what I have genuinely good enough? Is this it?

I spent over 15 years in various forms of therapy and couples counselling, twice. I attended retreats, listened to endless podcasts, read everything. The progress was there, and I gained tremendous insights - yet I still struggled with my relationships. 

When I called off my engagement in my 30s, it felt like my life imploded from within. I couldn't take any more heartbreak. I knew something had to fundamentally change.

What shifted everything was discovering how my identity patterns were informing how I showed up in love. For the first time, I understood the blind spots and hidden patterns I couldn't think my way out of. And within 11 months of calling off that engagement, I met my now husband - and experienced a relationship that felt completely different from anything before it.

Today I'm in a marriage in which I feel genuinely secure, safe, loved, and chosen.

 

Because I finally addressed what had been driving it.

From that transformation, combined with rigorous academic study and years of professional experience, I built the Successfully in Love® Method. It has since guided hundreds of high-performing individuals through the same crossroads, in a fraction of the time and without the decade of circling I endured.

I have studied and trained alongside leading experts in gender dynamics, attachment theory, relationships, patterns, somatic practice, breathwork and mindfulness.

Almost all of my private clients report stronger relationships, greater decisional clarity, and measurably higher performance in their relationships and in their work.

The work is structured,  action-orientated, and fast. This is strategic relational transformation with a proven curriculum and a rigorously hands-on approach. It moves quickly when you are ready.

I work with three kinds of people:

⮕ The executive in a marriage they're not fulfilled in - stuck in a "do I stay or go" loop, unable to make the one decision they can't think their way out of. Exhausted from analysing, sometimes with someone else in the picture, making everything more complicated.

⮕ The single executive who has built everything except the relationship they actually want - smart, self-aware, somehow still choosing the wrong people, or choosing no one, because it all feels too hard. Successful, yet alone each Sunday night.

⮕ The leader who has hit a ceiling - aware there is more available to them, they want to move past the internal limits and fears holding them back.

This is where the real scaling happens.

I work with a small number of private clients globally, across North America, Europe, Asia, and Australia, through 1:1 engagements, intensives, and invitation-only retreats.

If you are exceptional at everything except this, I'd love to hear from you.

Professional Background

  • MSt in Women's, Gender, and Sexuality Studies with Distinction from the University of Oxford, specializing in examining how masculine identity, power, and intimacy are constructed

  • Bachelor’s degree with Double 1st Class Honors from the University of Nottingham, specializing in masculinity studies 

  • Former Regional VP of a global behavioral-science firm

  • Peer-reviewed academic in Masculinity Studies

  • Certified Transformational Coach (ICF ACC)

  • Trained NLP & Hypnotherapy Practitioner and Coach

  • Trained EFT Practitioner

  • Mindfulness & Stress Reduction Practitioner

  • Certified Integrated Attachment Theory™ Practitioner

  • Psychological Safety Certification, University of Cambridge

  • Conscious Connected Breathwork Teacher-in-Training (Global Professional Breathwork Alliance)

  • Level 1 and Level 2 Training in Gottman Method Couples Therapy

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Why My Method is Different

1.

I bridge two worlds that rarely meet.

Most relationship experts are rooted in emotional work. Most executive coaches focus on business and strategy. I’ve lived and trained in both which allows me to connect the dots - combining strategy and real-world results.

3.

I connect relationship health to performance and profit.

The data is clear: when you feel safe and connected at home, your emotional capacity, decision-making, and professional outcomes rise with it. My work helps clients strengthen both sides of their life so they perform at their highest level.

2.

I focus on the blind spots and hidden patterns instead of offering surface level tools.

While communication skills and mindset work are useful, I focus on the the hidden identity patterns that drive most of our decisions, reactions, and relationship dynamics. My clients don’t just understand the shift... they live it.

4.

This process is centred on you, and your experience - you don't need your partner to change.

You can do this transformation alone, meaning you don't have to wait to get your partner on board. Every step is clear, measurable, and actionable -designed for individuals who want fast clarity and lasting change.

John Gray, Author Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus
Katarina's approach to gender dynamics is modern, progressive, and perfect for the high-achiever demographic she supports. She understands their needs like no other.

John Gray, Author Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus 

Brian Tracy, Founder, CEO, Chairman, Author, & Motivational Speaker
Katarina has created a powerful system for personal growth that helps you reach your full potential. Working with her accelerates your career, health, and relationships while opening doors to lasting success. After more than ten years of collaboration, I can say she’s extraordinary. Reach out - one conversation could truly change your life.

Brian Tracy, Founder, CEO, Chairman, Author, & Motivational Speaker

Greg Phillips
Katarina has played a significant role in helping me better understand the limiting beliefs that were holding me back from creating deeper, more meaningful relationships.

She strikes an exceptional balance between challenge and support - knowing when to push, and when to hold space. Katarina is highly knowledgeable, professional, and deeply insightful in her approach.

I wouldn’t hesitate to recommend her to anyone looking to improve their relationship with themselves and, in turn, with others..

Greg Phillips, Founder, CEO

Charlie Hart
Katarina’s program is the most effective I’ve experienced for making better, more confident decisions. Her intelligence and engaging style made every session meaningful and insightful. I’ve gained clarity, happiness, and faith in finding the right partner for a lasting relationship. I’m deeply grateful for her dedication and highly recommend working with her.

Charlie Hart

Derek Hrabovsky
I highly recommend this program to anyone committed to self-development. Relationships shape every part of our lives, and Katarina’s heartfelt, transformative approach helps you show up as your best self. Her compassionate guidance and proven methods create true growth and change. It’s a powerful, worthwhile investment with an exceptional coach who genuinely changes lives.

Derek Hrabovsky

Supriya Bansal
After a painful breakup, Katarina helped me rebuild my confidence and sense of self. Her empathy and insight guided me through healing and self-discovery that transformed both my personal and professional life. I’ve become more focused, grounded, and purposeful. Katarina isn’t just a relationship coach—she’s a catalyst for lasting growth and clarity.

Supriya Bansal

Mike Rodenburgh
As a middle-aged man, I found dating challenging until Katarina helped me navigate apps and understand my relationship style. Her intuitive questions guided deep reflection on how my behaviors shaped trust and connection. Through her coaching, I’ve transformed my approach and found real success. She’s an insightful, talented coach I highly recommend.

Mike Rodenburgh

Allan & Barbara Pease
Katarina has the unique ability to understand the power of the body and its communication language. Her perceptive and introspective skills are invaluable to both corporations and individuals. If you want to sharpen your understanding of yourself and increase your potential to create the life you truly want, we highly recommend working with Katarina.

Allan & Barbara Pease

Scott Friedman
Katarina has never settled and she will never let her clients settle either. Determined to create a life of authentic happiness both for herself and others, she will challenge you, guide you, and build you up into becoming your own greatest ally and advisor as you build the life you seek.

Scott Friedman

Beatrice Narkevičiūtė
Working with Katarina transformed my marriage after I thought we’d tried everything. She helped us explore our needs and truly hear each other in a supportive space. Caring, organized, and deeply knowledgeable, Katarina goes above and beyond for her clients. Her guidance has strengthened our relationship in lasting ways. Thank you, Katarina - you’re the best!

Beatrice Narkevičiūtė

John Gray, Author Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus
Katarina's approach to gender dynamics is modern, progressive, and perfect for the high-achiever demographic she supports. She understands their needs like no other.

John Gray, Author Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus 

Brian Tracy, Founder, CEO, Chairman, Author, & Motivational Speaker
Katarina has created a powerful system for personal growth that helps you reach your full potential. Working with her accelerates your career, health, and relationships while opening doors to lasting success. After more than ten years of collaboration, I can say she’s extraordinary. Reach out - one conversation could truly change your life.

Brian Tracy, Founder, CEO, Chairman, Author, & Motivational Speaker

Greg Phillips
Katarina has played a significant role in helping me better understand the limiting beliefs that were holding me back from creating deeper, more meaningful relationships.

She strikes an exceptional balance between challenge and support - knowing when to push, and when to hold space. Katarina is highly knowledgeable, professional, and deeply insightful in her approach.

I wouldn’t hesitate to recommend her to anyone looking to improve their relationship with themselves and, in turn, with others..

Greg Phillips, Founder, CEO

Charlie Hart
Katarina’s program is the most effective I’ve experienced for making better, more confident decisions. Her intelligence and engaging style made every session meaningful and insightful. I’ve gained clarity, happiness, and faith in finding the right partner for a lasting relationship. I’m deeply grateful for her dedication and highly recommend working with her.

Charlie Hart

Derek Hrabovsky
I highly recommend this program to anyone committed to self-development. Relationships shape every part of our lives, and Katarina’s heartfelt, transformative approach helps you show up as your best self. Her compassionate guidance and proven methods create true growth and change. It’s a powerful, worthwhile investment with an exceptional coach who genuinely changes lives.

Derek Hrabovsky

Supriya Bansal
After a painful breakup, Katarina helped me rebuild my confidence and sense of self. Her empathy and insight guided me through healing and self-discovery that transformed both my personal and professional life. I’ve become more focused, grounded, and purposeful. Katarina isn’t just a relationship coach—she’s a catalyst for lasting growth and clarity.

Supriya Bansal

Mike Rodenburgh
As a middle-aged man, I found dating challenging until Katarina helped me navigate apps and understand my relationship style. Her intuitive questions guided deep reflection on how my behaviors shaped trust and connection. Through her coaching, I’ve transformed my approach and found real success. She’s an insightful, talented coach I highly recommend.

Mike Rodenburgh

Allan & Barbara Pease
Katarina has the unique ability to understand the power of the body and its communication language. Her perceptive and introspective skills are invaluable to both corporations and individuals. If you want to sharpen your understanding of yourself and increase your potential to create the life you truly want, we highly recommend working with Katarina.

Allan & Barbara Pease

Scott Friedman
Katarina has never settled and she will never let her clients settle either. Determined to create a life of authentic happiness both for herself and others, she will challenge you, guide you, and build you up into becoming your own greatest ally and advisor as you build the life you seek.

Scott Friedman

Beatrice Narkevičiūtė
Working with Katarina transformed my marriage after I thought we’d tried everything. She helped us explore our needs and truly hear each other in a supportive space. Caring, organized, and deeply knowledgeable, Katarina goes above and beyond for her clients. Her guidance has strengthened our relationship in lasting ways. Thank you, Katarina - you’re the best!

Beatrice Narkevičiūtė

What People Are Saying

Katarina's approach to gender dynamics is modern, progressive, and perfect for the high-achiever demographic she supports. She understands their needs like no other.

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John Gray, Author Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus

Katarina has created a powerful system for personal growth that helps you reach your full potential. Working with her accelerates your career, health, and relationships while opening doors to lasting success. After more than ten years of collaboration, I can say she’s extraordinary. Reach out - one conversation could truly change your life.

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Brian Tracy, Founder, CEO, Chairman, Author, & Motivational Speaker

Katarina has played a significant role in helping me better understand the limiting beliefs that were holding me back from creating deeper, more meaningful relationships.

She strikes an exceptional balance between challenge and support - knowing when to push, and when to hold space. Katarina is highly knowledgeable, professional, and deeply insightful in her approach.

I wouldn’t hesitate to recommend her to anyone looking to improve their relationship with themselves and, in turn, with others..

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Greg Phillips

Katarina’s program is the most effective I’ve experienced for making better, more confident decisions. Her intelligence and engaging style made every session meaningful and insightful. I’ve gained clarity, happiness, and faith in finding the right partner for a lasting relationship. I’m deeply grateful for her dedication and highly recommend working with her.

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Charlie Hart

I highly recommend this program to anyone committed to self-development. Relationships shape every part of our lives, and Katarina’s heartfelt, transformative approach helps you show up as your best self. Her compassionate guidance and proven methods create true growth and change. It’s a powerful, worthwhile investment with an exceptional coach who genuinely changes lives.

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Derek Hrabovsky

After a painful breakup, Katarina helped me rebuild my confidence and sense of self. Her empathy and insight guided me through healing and self-discovery that transformed both my personal and professional life. I’ve become more focused, grounded, and purposeful. Katarina isn’t just a relationship coach—she’s a catalyst for lasting growth and clarity.

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Supriya Bansal

As a middle-aged man, I found dating challenging until Katarina helped me navigate apps and understand my relationship style. Her intuitive questions guided deep reflection on how my behaviors shaped trust and connection. Through her coaching, I’ve transformed my approach and found real success. She’s an insightful, talented coach I highly recommend.

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Mike Rodenburgh

Katarina has the unique ability to understand the power of the body and its communication language. Her perceptive and introspective skills are invaluable to both corporations and individuals. If you want to sharpen your understanding of yourself and increase your potential to create the life you truly want, we highly recommend working with Katarina.

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Allan & Barbara Pease

Katarina has never settled and she will never let her clients settle either. Determined to create a life of authentic happiness both for herself and others, she will challenge you, guide you, and build you up into becoming your own greatest ally and advisor as you build the life you seek.

Decorative image

Scott Friedman

Working with Katarina transformed my marriage after I thought we’d tried everything. She helped us explore our needs and truly hear each other in a supportive space. Caring, organized, and deeply knowledgeable, Katarina goes above and beyond for her clients. Her guidance has strengthened our relationship in lasting ways. Thank you, Katarina - you’re the best!

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Beatrice Narkevičiūtė

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