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Why do we divorce? Here’s the main reason
80% of divorces happen because of a slow and steady emotional disconnect over the years.
NOT because of drama and conflict.
Or infidelity.
Or ‘money’.
Just a slow and steady decline.
Two people, living separate lives over the years. Disengaged.
The reason this is so prevalent isn’t because people just ‘grow apart’.
In my experience, it’s typically because most people are so focused on their careers and chasing money, and then kids and raising a family, that they lose sight of each other.
It’s an issue of neglect.

Should I leave my partner? How to know what to do when the stakes are high, and you’re feeling stuck in limbo.
When the stakes are high, and you’ve spent a few years…even decades with this person, it can feel utterly paralysing to contemplate leaving everything you have built with them behind.